Simone De Bizarre

archive of interruptions

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

Fellow AuDHDs, I often hear people on the spectrum say alcohol makes it easier to relax or socialise. Is that true for you? Alcohol and weed always made me feel out of control, which I hated, unlike other substances that made me feel sharper, calmer and much more in control.

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@ayogiovanna I recently lost a friendship for something like that. I was clearly stating to them that I am in a relationship and not interested, and somehow they thought that, by saying this out loud, I was meaning the opposite. We're few months later and I still don't understand it.

[goth aesthetics @gothsthetiques]

“tell me a little about yourself”

[Neville Southall @NevilleSouthall]

Good morning everyone today I will be mainly listening to
Siouxsie and the Banshees
❤️

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

Fucking to music is terrible, especially if you’re a musician. The BPM almost never matches the actual rhythm your partner needs, so now you’re either off-beat or a bad lover. Go vintage and enjoy a good ol' dirty talk 🗣️

[kokonuts🦇 @kokonuts293]

This may be a virgin opinion as I am one but I genuinely cannot comprehend the idea of fucking to music and i want to know what the appeal is from people that have had sex

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@alicia_e_k That's exactly why I like it. It's the new "My momma says I am special".
I will hit you with a "Heyyy I am neurospicyyyy 😏 Wanna see me having a meltdown ? 👁️🫦👁️"

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

« There can't be one heart for hatred and another for love. We only have one, and I always thought about how to save my heart.��»
— Svetlana Alexievich, War's Unwomanly Face

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

New game unlocked: is this anemia or autistic burnout?

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@Novanamix « You have ADHD? Stop it. »

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@goth_videos Robert and Siouxsie together on stage 🖤

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@Novanamix 🤝

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@Novanamix I might be sometimes working 7/7, 24/24, but my adhd handles that well. the moments my work goes quieter, my adhd comes back and hit me in the face like a hammer, and I usually end up doing nothing and going full hypoactive... but with autism

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

the cure - love will tear us apart (joy division cover)

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

If I need to be mean for that person to respect me, then they can kindly fuck off my life because they're not worth my care

[Josh @JD_Quotes2017]

Unfortunately, sometimes you have to be a little mean to make people realize you're not someone to be played with. Not everyone respects kindness, but they will respect boundaries.

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@spinelessaisha Accepting that failure is what makes success a success, that without imperfections, perfection wouldn't exist, allows you sometimes to just take a breathe and be more gentle with yourself - it's not always working, but it is good to remember it sometimes

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@Novanamix Good luck with you ADHD 🙏

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@Novanamix I struggle so much with meeting people, socialising, going out, being subjected to the sounds and noises, and mostly end up having meltdowns and burnouts out of masking when I do. I sometimes have months were going out is a struggle (i work remotely, so im lucky on that)

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@Novanamix I understand completly, I used to be in the same cycle over and over until I eventually found the career I am in now, and I still have those ups and downs but my work allows me to have a lot of "emergencies", no schedule, and loads of changes, so

[Simone De Bizarre @simonedebizarre]

@Novanamix For me it is the opposite. I have the chance to have a work that fits my ADHD so well, but autism burnout is always waiting for me like this
what do you struggle the most with your adhd?

[Nux @mherlihy0816]

Someone asked if I was ready for the fall and it took me a second to realize they meant autumn and not the total collapse of society.