This woman is dead because of a man that had 6 protective orders against him from various women, not including the one she filed a week before he stabbed her to death. Should have never happened and I hope he rots in hell.
Emotionally immature parents (EIP) are obsessed with appearance. Rarely will they ask a child how they feel, or take interest in what they think. These children become adults who prioritize how they look and ignore what they feel.