The highest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.
Going from anxious to secure is beautiful. You’ve stopped obsessing & trying to get ppl to see you & start remembering how to see yourself. You go from being the emotional first responder in every dynamic to just being now. If you’re not here yet, do this;