exactly. pls date people who thinks highly of u & puts u in highest regard. they should inspire u rather than belittling u. someone actually loving u makes u do things u are excited about- arts, hobbies, your dreams. they make you feel life is possible rather than restricting it
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.