Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
I have to marry somebody who takes holidays seriously. A family person. Birthdays, graduations, anniversaries… everything must all be celebrated fully in my household.
I wanna marry into a funcional family... when they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and bday parties...I wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in law & go shopping with their siblings. I don't want it to be just "US" I want a family that's oriented.
i don't think people understand.. you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. rather it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. it's only so much one person can take!!!!!!
I peep EVERYTHING. How you talk to me, how you show up, how you move when things aren’t convenient. I don’t force understanding, I don’t beg adults to act grown, I just adjust. I match effort with effort, energy with energy. My access to you will look like how you show up for me.
I'm not embarrassed to admit I overplay my part a lot. I just genuinely want to make sure I give out the love I want to receive. I love hard, to the point I hurt my own feelings, which bothers me. I'll never change that aspect of myself though, because I know I showed up honest, real, and as me. I stand firm on that. 🤍
If i seem distant just know i caught on.