Controversial hot take and opinion:
just because we are all dommes in this space does not mean we all have to blindly support each other without critique OR believe we’re entitled to free labor / help because we’re all dommes.
Curate your following full of people you actually agree with and find inspiring, not follow for follow or gain train BS which actually hurts your account. So many people turn out to be bigots when the kitchen gets too hot or they’re constantly in their own drama, and you may find that actually, you dont need to follow everyone who follows you or appears on your feed. You don’t want to be caught in the crossfire when that happens.
also, do not expect handouts or free advice just because you see another domme is succeeding without any compensation for them.
It’s just rude to expect free labor/advice when most of us have built our accs from the ground up. I get DMs asking me to do shit like SHARING SUBS/MONEY to “be a girls girl 🥺”.
Do your own research + be you in this space and it will take you far. Theres a niche for everyone, and you should never change just to appeal to a sub more/subs. This is findom, be DOMINANT + PROUD!
Sorry for the long rant this just uhhhh, really grinds my gears
@SirSimp@BabyElle011 also, “domme” but I now have two IRL subs like you had originally been somewhat interested in. You’re just a typical man rejected by a woman LOL
@SirSimp@BabyElle011 I meant what I said when I said after that comment you made I didn’t want you in the least lmao, there was no “gaslighting” like you claimed- for the exact reason this pretty lady said
I wasn’t hotheaded- just have boundaries. You do not meat the quality of sub I enjoy playin w
@SirSimp@BabyElle011 no, but it was something i had called you out for prior + with how long you’ve been in the space you can’t claim to be uneducated about general culture
@BabyElle011@SirSimp “I didnt approach her!” but subs who have been in this space for a while know what a few likes mean especially with a domme you’ve communicated with before. He had even used the same tactic in the past and when I called him out on it he said it was an “impulse” LMAO
@BabyElle011@SirSimp he asked about IRL about 8 months prior + had liked like 4 of my posts in a row today and had said maybe to a rt game before. He’s backtracking and trying to seem chiller now bc he sees how many people disagree with him. You can tell by the fact he chose to say “domme”
@SirSimp If you think she’s out of your league then she 100% is, not because you aren’t capable but because we as Dommes typically don’t like when subs feel like they can’t give “enough”. If that’s your attitude, we don’t want it. We want someone who tries anyway.
@AliceMoonsea@SirSimp see that’s what i’m saying I think he doesn’t realize he’s throwing a temper tantrum because i have boundaries about who I keep in my circle