Ah the first False Fall of the year. Southerners gleefully donning cardigans and light jackets as we rush out to greet the autumn morning with a gleam in our eyes. βI can almost see my breath!β I say, blowing into my cupped hands. Knowing in my heart it will be 87 on Thanksgiving
i love that period when you find a great series & you don't care about anything except the series. you forget about everything, just you & the series.
Iβm pretty disappointed that I grew up believing bad people would face consequences for doing terrible things, only to become an adult and realize that bad people literally get away with everything. Sometimes, they even get rewarded for it.
being misunderstood while youβre already struggling is a different kind of exhaustion. now you have to survive whatβs happening inside you and defend yourself from everyone who thinks youβre just being difficult.
i won't cut a friendship off if you interact with someone i've had a negative experience with but if you know what they did and you still choose to interact then that friendship will never progress
Gotta STAY CLEAR of folks who don't value the small sacrifices you make... like spending money you barely got, pulling up when you tired, giving advice, carrying their problems, or being the one who always checks in first. Some people only love the benefits, never the person. They'll use your energy just to go pour it into everybody but the one who's actually helping them.
someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more