Iโm not a reactive person. If I discover something disappointing, unexpected or just straight fried, ima just adjust my behaviour/expectations.
Life is short & my energy is sacred lol
so blessed to have a bf that is emotionally intelligent & insightful. always able to put my thoughts into words and shows me such an intuitive perspective
biggest lesson Ive learnt is when you protect someoneโs feelings, rships, emotions โฆ ur just enabling their worst behaviours
let people fuck up n figure out their own shit
never worth fighting someone elseโs battles for them
a) wtf are u getting out of it helping someone that doesnโt want to help themselves
b) people donโt change so u just end up looking like a dumbass