I love watching the constant amount of DMs roll in from “subs”. Don’t you know how to be a sub? You start with tribute, that’s the first rule. If you can’t do that, you’re not a sub 🤷♀️
Dommes, please remember to keep the subs who are showing up for you. Not every sub is meant to be drained and deleted. Some of them are rare little gems that deserve to be kept close and spoiled with your presence 💖
✨ Keep the subs who:
💌 Consistently check in without needing to be chased
💸 Send without hesitation because they genuinely love supporting you
🐶 Respect your rules, your moods, your boundaries and don’t make everything about them
🧠 Value your energy, not just your content or body
🎀 Ask how your day is, remind you that you’re doing amazing, and support your glow-up just as much as they admire your power
It’s so easy to focus on the rude ones, the flaky ones, the ones who waste our time but when a sub makes life easier, not harder? That’s worth something too. You’re allowed to enjoy the soft ones. The loyal ones. The quiet senders and big supporters. They’re not weak they’re rare. Let’s normalize keeping the good ones because spoiled doesn’t always have to mean savage. Sometimes, it just means protected, honored, and adored 💕