girls pls don’t be afraid to be a bitch. have boundaries. walk away if you feel uncomfortable. say “no” more often. don’t laugh at a joke if it wasn’t funny. and don’t EVER feel bad for standing your ground.
continue being soft & kind but do not take ANY form of disrespect.
when you realize the most attractive features in a man are psychological maturity,problem solving ability,emotional intelligence and his ability to provide support,protection leadership and clarity.
i always had various levels of sexual chemistry in my relationships. but being 100% in tune with someone sexually is such an otherworldly experience. the constant desire & craving. primal, ravenous, yet deeply intimate. its actually kinda scary the way i feel about this woman 😭
reminder: boundaries are rules & limits we set for OURSELVES, not others.
the following are NOT boundaries:
“you can’t talk to that person”
“you can’t go out”
“you have to tell me where you’re going”
“you can’t wear that”
“you can’t post that”
those are controlling behaviors+
If you're a lover girl, please get yourself a lover boy and vice versa. Leave these nonchalant, low key anxious avoidant types to their own devices and flourish.