Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚

Solo prospective female adopter, embracing this adventurous journey with arms wide open.

PhD | open water swimmer | nature & healthy food lover.

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[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

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Swimming in the open seas is just sooooo liberating!!!

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@chadwickboseman RIP🌈🌈🌈

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Fatima Whitbread to adopt a child aged 57 after being adopted herself https://t.co/3veSZYVTQS

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Notes: Adoptees Who Adopt, by Chris Bodenner https://t.co/etkkDWA6GK

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan @JenStevie1 Below is an article from an Adoptee that profers alternate solutions to current adoption system
https://t.co/6vdGdaSfHi

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan @JenStevie1 Indeed . You mentioned there are solutions available for caring for abandoned babies without impacting their identities. So worth knowing what these solutions are...

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan @JenStevie1 The trauma that could come up for adoptees with regards their identity is real & I do acknowledge that.
It's not good enough castigating the whole adoption system though without coming up with alternative solutions.

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan Explain how you'd care for an abandoned baby that was discovered alone in the local park with no nametag to identify them , nor family to trace them back to?

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan In some cases, the benefits of adoption to certain children far outweigh any potential issues that may come up, so long as certain actions are put in place to address all potential issues that could cause trauma . A good no. of excellent actions available nowadays.

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan Not being an adopted child isn't a guarantee to never experiencing trauma in life. Plus some children left in the care of their birtg families would have caused extraordinary trauma in the 1sr place.Every case should be decided based on cost vs benefits of adoption to the child

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@FereraSwan I like to read articles like this where adoptees' use their exp to provide constructive advice on how the adoption process can be managed better.Rather than denying that adoption will continue to happen for the foreseeable future.
https://t.co/6vdGdaSfHi

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan And rightly so too.But for now, there are children out there who urgently need a stable family home to be raised in for which we have to make do with the therapy tools & adoption process available for nowhere. Adopters adopting a child in the UK today practice open adoption only.

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@FereraSwan There are some scenarios where adoption may be the only way for raising a child.A child who becomes an orphan by way of death of birth mum & dad. And for whom there isn't anyone in their extended family available to take on the parenting role.
I can think of few other scenarios.

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan And rightly so too.But for now, there are children out there who urgently need a stable family home to be raised in for which we have to make do with the therapy tools & adoption process available for nowhere. Adopters adopting a child in the UK today practice open adoption only.

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan And rightly so too.But for now, there are children out there who urgently need a stable family home to be raised in for which we have to make do with the therapy tools & adoption process available for nowhere. Adopters adopting a child in the UK today practice open adoption only.

[Wonder Mama 🏃🏿‍♀️💃🧚 @singleadopteruk]

@FereraSwan Life story works and other well researched therapy are available nowadays in combination with open adoption to preserve an adoptees'sense of identity.
More research still ongoing on adoptee identity preservation which could in future, address adoptees' needs for identity moreso .