the singlehood chronicles

never married. never engaged. no kids. trying to keep believing in love. 🙃

[the singlehood chronicles @singlehoodchron]

hey, lovers...

the time has come to move on from this app.

this will remain as an archive (unless they delete it), but I'm locking everything except @empyrealinsight.

experimenting w bluesky & spill

https://t.co/wSuCaJ74hw

https://t.co/jJrXsv6r2X

see y'all elsewhere. 😘

[the singlehood chronicles @singlehoodchron]

In some ways, I recover faster now. The scar tissue runs deep tho.

[the singlehood chronicles @singlehoodchron]

shout out to the spam comment that reminded me this thread existed. 😅

[the singlehood chronicles @singlehoodchron]

But having these realizations some years ago is exactly why I cut this situation off at the knees.

If a man is out of order, I know I can't fix that. I have to see the reality of the situation and save myself... even if it breaks my heart.

[the singlehood chronicles @singlehoodchron]

@ADBPhD 🙏🏼
wasn't sure if I was even going to keep this rant up here. 😄

[the singlehood chronicles @singlehoodchron]

It really is a whole different kinda pain to be pursued, then dropped. To think you're building something real that falls apart at the first bit of pressure.

Faking it til you make it doesn't work with people's hearts. 😑

[the singlehood chronicles @singlehoodchron]

That's where I am today.

[the singlehood chronicles @singlehoodchron]

This...ALL of this... is why we keep telling you that being a true child of Osun is NOT what you think.

Her radiance is magnificent, but *how* She earned it can easily kill you.

It's one of the most ridiculous paradoxes, being made of Love in a world that only respects war.