A girl was giving a guy her number as she got off, but he missed the last three digits. He panicked and shouted, “What are the last three?!” By then she was already outside, so without even thinking, the whole taxi shouted, “700!” 😭
Dated one for almost 3 years and I never used a cent of my money the whole time. If I ever needed to swipe my card it was with money he just sent to my account, he would ask me if I had money and send me some on top of a monthly allowance but he was a Jonasi, the AIDS was near 🫠
In a relationship?
Falling out of love is normal.
Getting tired of the relationship at some point is completely normal.
Only the intentional & wise lovers come out alive.
The truth is that, not many understand that relationships have phases. It takes intentional people to go through all the phases & choose to stand firm.
There are 3 main phases:
There’s the infatuation phase (the sweetest), the reality phase (the hardest), & the adjustment phase (where you’ve made peace with all their flaws).
Only a few make it through the second phase, and the few who get to the adjustment phase have to keep adjusting & compromising till they leave this earth.
Remember, the partner you met 6 years ago will not stay the same 6 years later.
Learning & compromising are constants.
That’s the only way.
My coworker died shortly after giving birth.
The doctors managed to bring her back twice before losing her.
That’s not even the saddest part.
A few months before she went into labor, our team was planning a baby shower for her.
She kept insisting we didn’t need to make a fuss.
Every time someone asked what gifts she wanted, she’d say:
“Just bring yourselves. I already have everything.”
After she passed, her husband came into the office to collect some of her things.
A sweater.
A framed photo.
A plant she kept on her desk.
Then he noticed the unopened baby shower gifts stacked in the corner.
Nobody knew what to say.
He just stood there staring at them.
Then he quietly said:
the difference between a fling and a situationship is that a fling is good natured, bubbly, fun, light hearted. a situationship is when you try to have a fling when you are heavy of heart
I dated an avoidant for almost a year and it genuinely fucked with my head.
At the beginning she was so into me. Constant texts, deep talks, future plans.
Then the second things got real, she started pulling away. She would say she needed space or that she wasn’t ready.
Radio silence for days.
Every time I tried to communicate, I became the too much guy. I started doubting myself and thinking I was the problem for wanting basic consistency.
i truly wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A loving wife. A peaceful wife. A secure wife. A comfortable and safe wife to a honorable, ambitious, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, funny, spontaneous God fearing husband
"How to kill a woman without leaving a trace" was googled 163 million times in 2025. But it's okay let's talk about alimony and the male loneliness epidemic.
Staying friends with someone you have so many feelings for is way harder than you think, especially when every conversation feels like a reminder of what you can't have.