The obsession with wanting people to regret losing you is insane. You’re not that special. People lose people every day and keep living. Heal from the ego that needs to be missed, chased, or mourned to feel valuable. Your job is not to become somebody’s punishment. Your job is to grow, move on, and build a life so full that their regret is no longer your concern.
i'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping over what you can't control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of your feelings. Don't lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.
How could I ever regret spending all that money training for hyrox when it made me a better runner, helped me become the fittest and strongest Ive ever been, and gave me an incredible community??? Growing up i’ve never had a sport too. I’m so happy i finally get to have one 🥺
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
A reminder from Atomic Habits by James Clear:
“It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment.”