You really don't realise how much a person is holding you down and setting you back until you no longer deal with them anymore. The weight lifted off your shoulders is undeniable. Suddenly you're left wondering how you tolerated their nonsense for so long. Sometimes people not being in your life is a blessing in disguise!
Lento ka 50/50 sasiyifuna emsebenzini and in societal roles kuphela. To eliminate discrimination and exclusion. We never wanted it in the household. Lento isiphumile esandleni.
I am most certain all financial providers and sole breadwinners can attest to the fact while we take pride in being able to provide consistently and absolutely for those who depend on us, we too could use a break. Every now and then, it would be nice to be on the receiving end, to be provided for, to not have to part with a single cent. Even if it were just for one week out of the 52 in a year. Or better yet, not to be asked for jack for a week.
So before you ask for money or a favour from the breadwinner, be mindful. We may not always show it, but we hate being asked for money. Akhomntu uthanda ukucelwa imali. Nathi siya dikwa kuhleli nje siyabhatala.
My son has just asked for pancakes. Ndi chekrwe!
someone once told me,"everyone comes into a relationship with baggage. you will either trip over each other's bags or you will unpack them together," and that hit me. The right person will sit down and help you unpack, no matter how long it takes.