get back into it. whatever it is; the gym, your art, your studies, that book you haven’t finished, that project you shelved. whatever you weren’t ready for then, you’re ready for now.
adult friendships require grace. People are busy. People are healing. people are growing. people are taking time for self-care just like you. don’t mistake less communication for less love. check in, not out.
You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fuck up, & actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time shit gets real.
my mom was telling me today that there's no disappointment when you accept things or people for what they are. but you don’t always have to cut people off when they don’t meet your expectations sometimes you just have to adjust the relationship + accept their capacity.
the energy of this season feels heavy but necessary. abrupt shifts, kinda chaotic, but also aligned. the shadow work of this season will be one to come back to.