There is a Japanese legend that says:
if you miss the bus, maybe you avoided the accident. If you got rejected, maybe you were saved from the wrong place. If they left, maybe they made room for who is coming. The universe protects you in ways that look like bad luck at first. Trust the detour.🍂
Husband told his wife that the cloth she’s wearing is too revealing and she changed it immediately to another one. She got to the even and her friends noticed her own cloth is different from the other, she explained that her husband does not like the style so she had to change. They all understood.
After the gathering, one of them who is a single mother of three due to divorce started messaging her that she’s letting her husband control her life and she shouldn’t be a slave to any man bla bla bla.
She blocked her immediately before she sends further messages.
This is the last time I will say this here. I have seen many homes in Ajah are now for sale. If you know what is good for you and your generation, get a good surveyor, before you buy houses anywhere around Ajah.
If possible, use your bank to buy it. Let them do the due diligence for you.
I won’t say more than this.
Many of you want great relationships but all you want to do is take.
There’s nothing great that comes out of always taking. Even friendships but you want life long partners while being a leach.
If you like stay online and let people deceive you that you are some sort of prize that no one can get tired of.
For over 10 years, he struggled to make money. Through it all, his mother stayed by his side.
Now you met him 2 weeks ago and you think he should choose you financially over her?
My sister, go and hustle.
Yesterday was my boyfriend's birthday. He posted his picture on his WhatsApp status with a happy birthday caption.
Guess what happened after🤔 more than 5 girls texted him to send them 'birthday money'.
It is his own birthday, but he should be the one to press money 🤦🏽♀️ none of them asked why he hasn't been online. One even had the audacity to call and asked if she should send her account details. I didn't know when I took the phone from him and spoke words into her head.
The shamelessness in some girls these days is becoming overbearing.
When my sister wanted to buy land, she informed my parents.
My dad asked, “Is your husband aware?”
She said, “No.”
Dad replied, “Tell him first and get back to me.”
She never did.
Later, my dad found out through my brother and called her husband.
“Are you aware your wife bought land?”
The husband replied:
“No sir. But why would she do that? All the properties I buy are in both our names.”
My sister called my dad angrily:
“Dad, you want to scatter my marriage!”
My Dad answered her:
“You’re the one already scattering it.”
Twelve years later, she still thanks him. She said her friends had been advising her to buy property secretly.
If my lovely wife leaves me today for any reasons best known to her.
You won't see me come online to cry.
I did not pay her school fees.
I did not pay her rent while dating her.
I did not buy her phones while dating her.
I did not give her money for hair while dating her.
I did not give her family shishi while dating her.
I did not send her tfare while dating her.
I did not halt my growth or career while dating her and even in marriage.
Everything that I have ever done for her, I did them because she invested in me and sacrificed for me.
And because she's raising responsible children for me and taking good care of me as her husband and father to our children.
So I'll not have any regrets that I wasted money.
Because I didn't put the cart before the horse.
And I'll co-parent with her in peace because she's a good mother.
I don't even mind willing some of my assets to her, even as an ex wife.
When I tell you that I am blessed by God with a wife, I am not joking.
I know who I married, and I cannot deceive myself for public validation.
She's not a perfect woman, but she's a woman that I have embraced her imperfections wholeheartedly.
End.
Here’s a piece of unsolicited advice for Men with money entering relationships:
A lot of your relationships fail because you started with an unsustainable version of you. Sometimes when we love someone, we try to secure that love through too much effort, attention, gifts, or availability too early.
“You can kill a new plant by watering it too much.”
The problem with doing too much too early is that your initial effort becomes the standard. A relationship that starts at 100 has nowhere natural to grow.
When you give too much too early, the relationship skips the stage where you 2 gradually learn to love each other in a realistic way. Your effort becomes your identity in the relationship.
So when you reduce that effort later, it feels like less love to the other person whereas you’re just dealing with life.
When you have money, it’s tempting to do too much too early. But it’s usually a bad idea even if you can afford it.
Yup Edochie on Frank Edoho and his ex wife’s situation
“Many men are with women that don’t love them, they’re just wasting their time. Once a woman begins to cheat, she has checked out already, her bra!ns and emotions are out of the marriage already, that’s why you’ll hear voice notes where she and the concubine will be m0cking and rubb!shing the husband join”
You cheated & Got Caught. Then you cloned your Husbands WhatsApp & Started Enticing Young female acquaintances of his with Money for Sex so that you Present their replies to make it Look like He actively Cheats as well. This kain Wife can Poison her Man to be with her Lover. 🥶🥵
What is the point of going to university to get degrees, when, after acquiring them, you end up:
1. Dancing on TikTok
2. Living in the gym, training people or looking at people
3. Setting up OnlyFans accounts
4. Working as a sex-worker
5. Become a gambler
6. Become a kidnapper
7. Become a Nigerian activist and protester
8. Become a useless blogger, harassing people
9. Waiting to hate on successful people
10. Have burner accounts to abuse people