[26yrd]
Nigerian
Sadistic Master / Dominant🖤🔥
Hard kinks & intense power exchange
Into [ Impact play, degradation, bondage, total control😈👽🖤]
DMs open for serious subs only 🫶🔒🍆📍
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MDNI
One reason relationships are becoming harder is that we’ve confused interdependence with codependency. Love requires mutual influence. When we believe no one has the right to challenge or shape us, intimacy becomes nearly impossible.
Keeping a submissive or bottom safe is a shared responsibility. The s type needs to work on communication & advocating for themselves, while the D type needs to work on checking in, creating space, & adapting. These are skills that you can get better at by practicing together 💜
Travelling by train for the first time, Kierkegaard sat with his back to the engine, meaning he could see where the train had been but not where he was going. It struck him that life itself unfolds like this: ‘Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards.’
Power exchange isn't one sided. It's built together.
A sub isn't there to sacrifice their wellbeing for a Dom's wishes.
Dom isn't taking from a sub until there's nothing left to give.
Strength of a dom is putting the health of the dynamic above your ego and getting your way.