You can learn a lot about people from what they lack. If they lack accountability, they'll shift the blame. If they lack communication skills, they'll say you're arguing. If they lack emotional intelligence, they'll call you sensitive. If they lack effort, they're not interested
In your career, you will meet a co-worker who hates you for no reason. It is very important you keep showing up at your best, keep triggering them and their insecurities.
Clarifying things so the other person doesn't overthink is also a form of emotional responsibility. Reassurance is a love language that doesn't get talked about enough.
When the bond finally fades, you see them clearly: a deeply self-centered person with an ego too fragile for accountability, someone who avoids communication, hides from honesty, and always finds a way to become the victim instead of growing
If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷♀️
You can spend 2 years with the same person, adjust your your routine to fit theirs, get to a point where their mood affects your mood and they will wake up one day and say they don’t love you anymore and walk away from your life and There is nothing you can do about it
don't hold things back, say that you're angry, say that you're jealous, say that you made a mistake, say that you're missing them, say that you like the person, just say something..
ego destroys relationships.
If she cared, she would check up on you.
If she missed you, she would call you.
If you meant anything to her, she would tell you.
Don't forget this bro.
Some people will never reach out again cause they lack the maturity to face the fact that they did you wrong and you didn’t deserve it. Instead of taking accountability, they create a story about you so they can feel better about themselves.