If I could give a younger version of me just one piece of advice, it'd be this: do not settle. Do not settle for less. Don’t settle for less anywhere, but in particular, don’t do it with relationships.
Don’t settle for “I’m not sure if (s)he loves me”. Don’t settle for “I love him/her enough for both of us.” Don’t settle for “I want one thing with all my heart and (s)he feels iffy about it.” Don’t do it.
If you settle for less, you will sink valuable time into a relationship that you will lose anyway because as much as you put into it a relationship that involves two people, you can only put in 50%.
Don’t rationalize the non-relationship or explain it away. Don’t say “but I love him/her” or “I know (s)he will change”. Sooner or later (hopefully sooner but too often later) the relationship will not work out and you will say “I knew all along. Why did I do this if I knew all along?”
More than anything, relationships determine the quality of your life. Make them good. Make them count. Decide right now that you deserve what every human on earth deserves: someone who loves you. Someone who respects you. Someone you can trust.
Someone who, in a very uncertain world, is sure of nothing, but knows they want to be with you.
To anything else, no thank you.
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Sperm cells are either X or Y. The Egg cell is always X. If X-Sperm cell meets the egg(X) the baby will be a Girl (XX). If Y-Sperm cell meets the egg(X), the baby will be a Boy (XY).
We are just rolling between traumas with no time to truly feel, because the heart must be forced into numbness so that we can do what we have to do in order to survive.
Claim every joy no matter how small. Clam every sorrow no matter how terrifying. This is how we stay alive.
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After hours of heavy criticism from SAns, he has taken to his Twitter account to share a video clarifying nonsense 💔💔
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