don't forget about disabled people. please don't leave us behind. we can't escape the country, most of us can't even escape our states. please don't leave us behind.
@supermoe1985 if we actually had male privilege they'd be doing pronoun checks at the clinic before trans men go in for reproductive care. any male privilege we have is extremely conditional and very fragile and what it really is is cis-assumed privilege.
@sanguineblood people use their genital preference as a legal defense when they murder us. and it works. so i think ppl should probably think twice when they decide to make public their genital preference without being careful of the wording. esp if its unprompted at a random trans person
@sanguineblood saying their preference on random uninterested trans ppl's posts, implying that "lesbian = liking vagina" and "cishet woman = liking man with penis", implying trans ppl never have the genitals they prefer... random ppl don't gaf about ur preference and ppl cant be normal abt it
@naansequitur trans men not being in the habit of standing up for ourselves isn't evidence against your transphobia. you are allowed to have your genital preferences but the way people bring them up is always laced with an air of bioessentialism. so many better ways you could've phrased this.
@naansequitur being a cishet woman doesnt mean you're attracted to men with penises. you're a cishet woman who prefers penises but to imply that the definition excludes trans men or implies that trans men never have penises is 1: markedly untrue and 2: blatantly transphobic.
also you shouldn't word it as "i won't date trans women" bc that does imply that trans women all have penises, and to exclude a trans woman that has the anatomy you want IS transphobic. it really should just be about the anatomy and not about if someone is trans.
to expand more on the first point, the only time you need to be specifying your genital attraction for the most part is literally just to people you intend to date or sleep with. you don't need to make a post about it. you don't need to say it on a random trans person's post.
@stealth_riot these ppl are attention seekers and they dont care if its positive or negative. if u actually cared abt doing harm to the trans community u wouldnt be giving them the attention they want and you would be letting us take care of our own. this is not for cys ppl to be involved in.
@stealth_riot cis ppl shouldnt have gotten their nose in the lily tino stuff either, tyler and lily are their scapegoats for transphobia n its so obvious bc they were just overjoyed to constantly talk about how they were doing harm to the trans community. theyre doing harm cuz u wont stfu
@biresistance they see us as women and therefore they don't feel threatened by us the way cis women feel threatened by trans women so cis men feel no need to argue about this shit. they just make laws to strip us of ours rights in congress without talking to us directly.