If you offer me a sincere apology and change your behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and you're still repeating mistakes, you can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The past is actually the present if you haven't changed.
Sometimes you gotta remind people... I was already chosen before you arrived. Already blessed. Already building. You was an addition to the frequency, not the source of it.
Anything I do for someone comes from a place of love. you’ll never have to question my intentions or wonder if there’s a hidden agenda behind my kindness. If I care about you, it’s real and not transactional. I show up because i choose to, not because i need anything from you.
Have you noticed that women who don't accept disrespect, dishonesty, or manipulation, are often labelled as difficult, toxic, crazy, bitter, or complicated?
Intelligent people are INTENSELY OBSERVANT. They can literally see right through people: their intentions, their animosity, and their lies. That's why they don't entertain performative energy, they live a quiet life & mind their own business.
The older I get, the more I see why it’s important to only keep people around who have the same morals, manners, and sense of consideration as you. It’s not being picky, it’s protecting your peace. When you reach a certain stage in life, chaos and disrespect just aren’t entertaining anymore. You start craving calm, mutual respect, and people who move with the same kind of heart as you do.