there is something so horrifying about discussing your favorite media with non queer people who have such a straight vision of things... does this make sense
“Oh but no one wishes men happy men’s day”… Men don't celebrate International Men's Day for the same reason Britain doesn't celebrate Independence Day: they never had to fight for their freedom. Hope this helps
Saw someone say “you don’t get to starve a child of love and emotional safety for decades and then demand intimacy as an adult. You raised distance. Now sit with it.” AND I FELT THAT BIH
this should bother everyone. fanworks should stay in fandom spaces. we post ao3 with the understanding that it SHOULD only available to people actively seeking it out. this is putting someone’s work onto a platform they never asked for and opening it up to the wrong audience.