USA. A Mexican restaurant. We had not yet ordered anything, and the food was already arriving.
Chips. Salsa. Unrequested. Free.
I stopped the waiter. "We have not earned these."
"They just come with the table, man."
They come with the TABLE. In my land, hospitality is a debt. Every gift creates an obligation, weighed carefully, returned in the proper season with interest of feeling. Here, the gift arrives before you have even proven you can pay for dinner.
This is not an appetizer. This is a declaration: we trust you. Eat.
I ate with the gravity the moment deserved. And then — I must report this calmly — the basket emptied, and a new one appeared.
"Did we…?"
"Refill," the waiter said. "It's bottomless."
Bottomless. They have wells of salsa. The supply lines of this nation are beyond anything my ancestors imagined.
My friend warned me. "Don't fill up on chips, dude."
Too late. I had accepted three baskets. Honor demanded each one be finished — an unfinished gift is an insult. By the time my actual food arrived, I was a ruined man.
I was not hungry. I was not comfortable. I had been defeated by a courtesy.
Generosity that arrives before the request cannot be repaid. It can only be survived.
I know the rule now. I have made my peace with the basket. One basket. Two at the most.
Who am I deceiving. There is no number of baskets I would refuse. The trust of a nation is in that salsa, and I intend to honor all of it.
Honestly I don’t know why football isn’t as big as it should be in the US. Your national team isn’t even bad. How can you guys prefer basketball and baseball to this? Shout out to the Americans who love football, you’re real ones
Must watch:
Listen to @YolettMcCuin talk about Oxford and Ole Miss. We are so lucky to have her represent this school
Take a listen to this from the @stephenasmith show today
Trinidad Chambliss and Ole Miss, thank you.
Losing your Head Coach right before the playoff, we know it wasn’t easy…
But you guys stuck and fought together as a team and gave us a spectacular run to watch, it’ll be remembered.
#HottyToddy
Really no words to describe how proud I am of this team. Incredible group of young men. It hurts tonight but these guys will never be forgotten. Hold your heads high gentlemen! @OleMissFB@CoachGolding 🔴🔵
NEW: Trinidad Chambliss has agreed to a new deal with Ole Miss pending his eligibility waiver request being granted, @RossDellenger reports🦈
Chambliss is seeking a 6th season of eligibility.
https://t.co/IyXIEi55AU