Mahmoud Darwish knew what he was writing , he wasn't throwing just words when he said " I don't abandon people but I don't wish to hold the hands of those who leave"
Purify your heart. Take the spite out of it. Your heart is a small organ. When you fill it with hatred, you’re preventing it from being filled with the love of the Almighty. Always ask Him to protect us from hearts that are consumed with hatred, envy etc.