The thing that vanilla people don’t understand about the D/s relationship is how fucking powerful the sub is. Nothing happens without their approval. Limits are discussed in advance. The submission is in the transfer of power to push those limits in a safe space.
No, you're NOT a bad sub if:
~you don't like pain
~you don't go into sub space
~you use your safe word
~you have emotional triggers
~you require lots of negotiation
~you get nervous/anxious
~you need specific aftercare
~you have physical limitations
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My interactions w/ others come from a place of power, a genuine feeling that I am being the best authentic self I can be at the moment & what I have to offer is real. Those who don’t see what I have to give just aren’t aligned w/ my truth and/or purpose & that’s OK! ✨#mantra
#fusedglass. New work started. A shelf filled with small bits of colored glass are destined to become glass “tears and will be used in colorful, fanciful vessels.
Don’t even know where to write. Met a neat guy & after deep flirtations here & on our phones, he blocked me (silly Man, didn’t know me).
Another (whom I thought was the One), married a Vanilla girl & still we have (D/s & #Artists) connection.
& the Dearest @CallMeSir1982!!!💞