You think you found a calm, chill guy... until you realize he's not calm at all.
He's just a dismissive avoidant who doesn't know how to communicate like an adult.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself
And let me just say this… ladies when you’re educated, pretty, got motion AND no kids. You do NOT have to settle for struggling with someone. You have every right to be selective.
We have spent years being told it is “just a period problem” while our skin, our weight, our mood, and our energy were all falling apart. Today, the medical world finally admitted you were right.
PCOS is now PMOS.
when people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
Things done out of love for the wrong person can never be something you shame the doer for.
She loved through words and actions, some of you are dead inside and can never understand what that is,
Yall should sit this one out.
@ms0nigghaz This is the problem with y'all generation of women you guys don't want to make frantic effort to meet una life partner. You just feel he should appear to you at your own whim.
Date women in the same phase of life that you are, and not by age difference.
For example, you're a man (31yrs) in a middle class/level job, earning well and looking to pivot to the next level, date a woman in the same phase of life, even if she's 22 or 33. Don't be with someone who's 22 or 33, but still trying to grow from scratch because you want to be Bob the Builder.
Dating in life phases helps you filter out easily too. It brings understanding, partnership, and relatability.