Adejemilua O.Adeola™

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[Adejemilua O.Adeola™ @slimstardave]

And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God.
Ecclesiastes 3:13.

[Adejemilua O.Adeola™ @slimstardave]

@flowzki Bad child😂😅🤣

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

Modern prostitutes always feel like they’re outsmarting the system by doing ‘pay as you go’

I see talks like..

- “I get paid, you get fucked for free and you think you’re better than me because you dey answer girlfriend”

- “Me wey dem pay, you wey dem no pay, all of us na still ashawo”

What they fail to realize is that, you can’t cheat your soul.. In due time, It’d always still crave what it craves

That’s why after they do runs for a while, you then find them yapping things like

“That we’re having casual sex doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take me on dates, get me gifts and all”

Like oh, so after feeling like you’ve hacked the system, you’re now still looking for that same lady-like treatment ?

Sandra, it will not be well with you.

[Josh de Alchemist @JoshMat_]

@MikkyPapi @ThaBoyYom Because we don't teach our boys to have standards

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

Ugly stages of selective modern feminism:

In public: “I am independent. I don’t need a man.””destroy patriarchal norms”

While dating: “He should approach, plan, chase and impress me.”

When the bill arrives: “The man should pay.”

For marriage: “He must earn much more than me.”

With money: “His money is our money. My money is my money.”

When danger appears: “Where are the real men?”

For dirty, risky or physically hard work: “Men should do it.”

With children: “My body, my choice, my child, my decision.”

When accountability arrives: “Don’t judge me, blame patriarchy.”

In court: “I want 50-50.”

When childcare costs arrive: “Suddenly, now it is the man’s child too.”

So let’s stop pretending this is equality.

Any movement that demands equal power but avoids equal responsibility is not equality..:it is entitlement

[Adejemilua O.Adeola™ @slimstardave]

@talk2veee @aproko_doctor 😅🤣😂

[Adejemilua O.Adeola™ @slimstardave]

@main_ishh @aproko_doctor 😅🤣😂

[oluwole fadokun @fadokunoluwole]

This is the daily reality of so many men, they are going through a lot in silence with no one to share it with.

Rather than their partner to understand and support them through the season, they complicate it for him.

Even if you no get money to support your man, get better word to encourage him.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Can you girlfriend can? 😂

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

Young lady highlights double standard in motivational quotes for men and women

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Women don't love men.

End.

[Heart Mattaz by Rita @HeartMattaz]

I have said this countless times,

If your woman CONSTANTLY asks you for money for transport, a dress or money before she comes to see you then, the woman is not good for you and she doesn't love you.

If you know how easy women who love their men make it for them, you won't settle for financial vampires.

An average woman believes that because you both had sex then she has done you a favour. Sex is loving making, mutually shared between two lovers and NOT A FAVOUR FROM A WOMAN TO A MAN.

If you want to be paid for going to see your man, make it known to him that you are a prost!tute so he can be paying you for your time, and stop using a man and relationships as a shield to cover up your olosho business.

HeartMattaz

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Some of you are blurring the lines between casual sex and relationship. If you can't do relationship, stick to casual/paid sex. If you can't do casual/paid sex, stick to relationship.

This idea that you are not loved enough or you are being cheated if your man is not paying for your time, is a very nonsense mentality that only happens here. Your man should not be paying for your transport to go and see him. You are going to see your man whom you claim to love. Many of you sre using relationship for street. To outsiders, you have a man, but you know you are there to get paid. You should be excited to go see him, and spending your money to do that should naturally give you satisfaction. You even want to be paid for your time there because in your head, he had sex with you and if he loves you, he should give you money. Are you selling the sex or not? Stick to one script.

It is called love making because two people in love are having sex. Anytime you monetize intimacy and companionship, the love is absent. You know this bevsuse you know you do not love him. NOBODY under heaven wants to be paid for sex by someone they love.

If you are billing your man for spending time with you, you are a terrible person. That one needs to be said because some of you are taking pride doing it and shaming those not doing it as "forming good girl." You are terrible. It is not a flex. Similarly you are are not different for not asking if you still expect to be paid. Love comes with responsibility. To love is to GIVE. You cannot be expecting to be paid for your time. Are you rendering a service?

This is why it is much better dealing with foreigners. Someone in love juat want to love and be loved. Spending time with you is the love in and of itself. She pays her transport/drive to your place, bring you gift and still chooses to share the bills because love is responsibility. The guy does same because it is a two way street. Every action is motivated by "I love him" not "make I chop him money." The ones doing casual sex just wants to fuck. They transport themselves to you and get enough fuck and everyone is happy. If you offer her money for any reason, she would take offence because you are now calling her what she isn't. You'll end up begging and explaining if you no want problem. The ones selling sex are upfront about it and will tell you they expect to be paid and how much. In all of these, there is consent and clarity. Nobody will claim they don't know what they are doing.

I do not have problem with casual or paid sex. I've said it countless times. In fact, I also encourage it because it is a societal necessity and it is also 100 times better than the monetized relationship you people are doing. I have a problem with blurring the lines between relationship and casual/paid sex. Dont bring paid sex mentality into relationship. Relationship is for lovers. You are there to give. It is the love you give that you deserve. People into paid sex can factor their transportation into their service charge. That does not apply in relationship. This thing is just common sense.

To wrap up, there are ladies in Nigeria who do casual sex with you because they like you and see you as mature, and you cannot offer them money because you both know it is disrespectful. You are simply helping each other satisfy urges and respecting what yourselves and what you share. I had to say this so they know we are not grouping everyone together. The difference between this and relationship is love and commitment. Note that, it is very okay if you want to be paid for your time, just be honest about it upfront, not keeping quiet and dying from unfulfilled entitlement. This does not apply to relationship. Relationship is for lovers and love comes with responsibility.

[Heart Mattaz by Rita @HeartMattaz]

I keep telling women that till tomorrow, women cannot be equal to men, don't let anyone deceive you.

When it comes to marriage men have the upper hand and what men hate the most is a woman who acts authoritatively; like no one can control me or tell me what to do.

No man will open his heart in a clear conscience to marry a woman who is always challenging him or proving that she knows too much.

But you people are allowing feminists, frustrated people, and people who have missed out on so many opportunities to be wives to brainwash you into their miserable covens.

HeartMattaz

[The Best @TheBestqueenx]

Wow, is this magic or witchcraft?

[Adejemilua O.Adeola™ @slimstardave]

@OurFavOnlineDoc Nigeria should not have existed as a country🥺🥹🤦🏽‍♂️

[Loki @loki_Eph]

@onlyone_success I will leave this video here for her

She should let us know what’s up in 2 years

[Taylor jnr @taylor_007_]

This is the kind of message a lot of men need to hear more often. Too many good men carry silent pressure feeling like their worth is tied only to output, provision, or stoic usefulness. The truth is simpler and deeper: your existence itself has dignity. You matter even on the days you're tired, lost, average, or just... being.

Happy father's day ❤️

[XandyOby🌹 @OgodoSandra]

Lady: I just came to invite you to my wedding.

Ex: Oh... so you're really getting married?

Lady: Yes.

Ex: I'm happy for you.

Lady: It's actually your fault.

Ex: My fault?

Lady: If you hadn't left me, it would have been you standing at the altar with me.

Ex: Can I have you one more time?

Lady: You know I wanted you to have me forever.

The rest is history 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Chai... I pity some husbands. 😂

[Adejemilua O.Adeola™ @slimstardave]

💯👌🏽

[CHIGO @iamChigoo]

Jennifer Lopez said women do everything for men.

But when they say women multiply what men give them, nobody talks about what it took to provide what she multiplied.

The man’s part becomes duty. The woman’s part gets praised. Before you swallow old marriage advice, ask yourself one question:

Who provided what she multiplied?

[CHIGO @iamChigoo]

Jennifer Lopez said women do everything for men.

But when they say women multiply what men give them, nobody talks about what it took to provide what she multiplied.

The man’s part becomes duty. The woman’s part gets praised. Before you swallow old marriage advice, ask yourself one question:

Who provided what she multiplied?