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[𝐁𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐘 @X_Bill_Gl]

One thing I’m learning as a sex therapist in training is that your BDSM personality will expose your real relationship needs.

Being a brat, a sub, a rope bunny, prey, a switch, a masochist it’s not “just kinky.” It’s your attachment style with the lights dimmed.

Brats want someone who can match them.
Subs need consistent leadership, not control.
Rope bunnies crave safety and structure.
Prey needs clear pursuit.
Switches need flexibility.
Masochists want intensity and presence. 1/2

[ً @artfuIchaos]

unintentionally finding out the truth all the time is just something that happens to the divinely protected.

[Cho🧬 @trunkszenin]

Conflict is unavoidable, but repeatedly hurting someone in the same way after they've explained how it affects them is no longer just conflict

[RICO NASTY @riconasty]

Gotta ass u can kiss for the ones that’s hatinnnnn 😍😘

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

dissapearing on your partner after conflict when they need clarity or closeness is not giving yourself space. it is emotional abuse. the anxiety and abandonment wounds it creates are very real

[ro @loveologian]

Nothing to put between two bodies nothing to project the performance of eroticism onto. just desire and the machinations of the body which are propelled by desire. no wonder everyone's freaked out. women wanting to eat up other women ooh SO FREAKY

[🦋 @smbd177]

@riconasty I so badly want to be a bad bitch in the pit omfg

[a broken soul @abrokensouI]

how it feels to be self aware and still repeat self destructive patterns

[🦋 @smbd177]

I’ll know I’ve healed once I can eat more then a granola bar in a day

[Amy Christie @cri_amy]

A closed door can hurt even when it saved you.

[DOM 🪄 @fairybrandmuva_]

Whatever happened this week energetically and astrologically can never happen again because I’m convinced everyone lost their damn minds.

[Jillian Turecki @JillianTurecki]

No amount of chemistry can ever make up for the anxiety that comes from being with someone who’s emotionally inconsistent, unkind, or misaligned with your core values.

[48 @uzermmj]

imagine hurting me while i was lowering my standards just to love you

[Your Emotional Healing Coach @AfsaRosette]

The ability to disconnect from a person silently & just know within yourself that it’ll never be that again, is one of those evolved places of self respect you’ll ever get to. Certain conversations are performances of accountability that will never produce accountability.

[!! @mmiyaa00]

I loved someone once and they took me out back and killed me for it

[PVO @pvobranden]

My problem is I get around people and start making them believe in themselves. They get around me and try to dim my light.

[fxcemyia @thtgirljamyia]

Ppl will fuck up so bad with you that they ain’t got a choice but to act like they hate you to other mfs😭 They even go as far as creating a delusion in their heads to convince themselves you did something wrong to them bc they know they was weird asl & they just hate to admit it

[idk luv, enjoy. @related_feels]

Seeing the loser in someone you thought so highly of is insanely humbling

[Your Emotional Healing Coach @AfsaRosette]

They’ll punish you for the qualities that made them want you. They won’t want to lose you but they’ll damage you trying to keep you small.

[Teresa @tessy_1018]

and when the ego wears off I hope you realize what you did to me was actually evil asf