It's a different type of pain when ur going through shit and need someone to talk to but u dont wanna bother anyone so u just sit there drowning in ur thoughts
Someday ya’ll will learn that disrespect is a choice; someone made a conscious decision to violate you and/or deny you kindness or decency. Let that be everything you need to know.
Hardest pill to swallow is realizing people do not care. They’ll hurt you & really go on about their lives. Not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships, or family.
The longer I go without something, the more I’m okay with never having it again. And once I detach from someone or something completely, reconnection with me becomes impossible because I know what it took for me to finally let go. Once I’m done, I’m done.
colin bridgerton after finding out penelope is lady whistledown:
“i love you, i may not like you right now but i love you and that is enough to stay until i sort out my emotions in your presence”
Dating the wrong person can age you so badly. You will look like a dead version of yourself , dull skin, weight issues, personality gone. You just don’t know if you’re coming or going.
communication is not arguing. somebody telling you what they need is not arguing. somebody telling you to do more so they feel loved by you is not arguing. somebody telling you how you hurt them is not arguing. hearing what you dont wanna hear? is not arguing!!!!
y’all only take mental health seriously when it’s conveyed through death, but once it’s shown through lack of productivity, lack of hygiene, a messy room, unkempt hair, bad breath, it’s no longer mental health matters, now it’s “disgusting”, it’s “laziness”. what a shame.
the ugliest version of me is the version that comes out when I play board games. idk who she is but she is a monster she is not fit for human interaction