This needs to be shared over and over and over again. There’s not a single thing that can prepare you for something like this, but being aware and knowing what to do just in case, can possibly prevent the worse from happening. Stay safe !!!!!
i may be messy but im ORGANISED messy. if i need eyelash glue i KNOW that theres a tube on the floor under the left side of my bed bc i saw it there when i was looking for other shit i needed and i memorised its specific and random location for future uses
canceling plans is ok. staying home to cook is ok. disappearing for a bit to get your life together is ok. resurfacing in a foreign country with a new name 10 years later is ok. it's called self care