@funnypingas You'd have to have a severe deficiency in dignity to be the first one. At least the second still happens among cis men to some extent, but in trans men it's glaringly obvious and very embarrassing. All FTMs are women in the end though so it doesn't matter
all im saying is you never see fully transitioned trans girls with she/her pronouns, srs, ffs, lives p much stealth, have their papers changed and who identify as women who go "tgirls can be gay for liking men"
Physique-wise, I think I'll be alright. Just a bit more gym should fix it, and once I'm post-op I'll be okay. Just have to hold out a little longer. #hope