i don't think people understand.. you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. rather it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. it's only so much one person can take!!!!!!
As independent as I am, I love to be babied. Acts of service are how I feel loved. I don't care about money. Just lighten my load. I'm too prideful to ask for help, but when you take the initiative to take things off my plate, I know you really see me.
One thing about me there’s nothing sneaky or weird about how I move. If you cross a line with me, I’m doing one of three things: I’ll address it, I’ll distance myself, or I’ll cut off your access completely. My actions ain’t confusing, I’m straight up. It’s either yes or no, in or out.