deadass this is what your life becomes if you either don’t start a family or have an (irl) available friend group
I’ve been doing the whole solo thing, ventured doing different activities for myself and GUYS it does not solve everything. We NEED other people to keep us sane.
my soulmate spontaneously booked flights to come see me & has since moved them twice because he is so excited to see me. he’s obsessed with me as much as i am with him and i love it. i love us.
this is just a single silly moment but imagine this happens for everything you do all the time just constantly. not just with minor things but ur keys or documents or money, it’s exhausting having a brain that’s unreliable & this is just one of the ways adhd is in fact disabling
seeing adhd discourse about time blindness with a bunch of people going “bet you aren’t late for social events or flights and i bet you never leave work late” when yes actually those are all things that happen on a regular basis