And not to EVER be on Pheadra’s side, but I believed her when she said this and still do today. Kandi was weird af letting Todd house Apollo’s shit at their house like he had no other friends or family in ATL, KNOWING he was cheating on Pheadra. And had Pheadra never pulled that weirdo rapist allegations shit and addressed this head on, she could’ve cleared Kandi on that alone.
Notice how despite there being issues amongst the girls of #RHOSLC they are still able to tolerate being with each other and go on a girl’s trip? The #RHOC girls can take notes on how to show up to work, rather than trying to ice out a fellow housewife over some foolishness 🙄
a girl on tiktok said “healing is so hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child who is scared and just wants safety.... your inner teenager who is angry and just wants justice.... and your current self-who is tired and just wants peace." and it hits me hard.