You're right, you don't owe a person with BPD anything. You do, however, owe your *friend* basic communication and decency. If you do not want to be friends anymore, tell them. If they did something wrong, tell them. You are allowed to cease communication and end a friendship,
i genuinely feel so bad for the ppl i met recently they’re such an amazing funny people that i would’ve clicked with perfectly and had a strong bond with 3 years ago im sorry that im boring and cold af and can’t hold a convo and would make u feel like i despise u
what i think i dislike most about sys spaces is that they tend to either be like "this is ruining my life and there's no hope for me" or "this is the best thing ever and never has any drawbacks" and neither work out well when you're a "been getting really into yogurt lately" sys
how it feels to have financial problems mental problems relationship problems health problems family problems and self esteem problems all at the same time
The way people call this manipulative or evil is actually pretty triggering. Like okay maybe he should have distanced himself from these people. But also i can see his perspective here. Idk man, if you ghost someone with BPD and make them spiral you're a piece of shit.
i think a lot of ppl forget u cannot choose ur alters with dissociative identity-based disorders so yes dude someone can have an absolutely fucked up alter it doesnt mean theyre faking but so many people will fake this for ragebait that it makes everyone else look unserious
DID gets so much easier when you stop giving a fuck about “identity,” but you can’t say that without people wanting to kill you with hammers, so fuck it I guess.
people dont actually tend to fake plurality that much, its just that people take anything that isnt absolutely 100% identical to DID or any other disorder as evil fakers who deserve to be drawn and quartered despite the fact theyre peoples just like everyone of us