Hayat 🇳🇬⭐️

Always Random.

[PBE💋 @paintedbyesthr]

Highlight Maxxing✨ Lost files 4.0 🦋 makeup by me

[Hayat 🇳🇬⭐️ @snoophachty]

So glad I’m freeeed that ⭐️

[Hayat 🇳🇬⭐️ @snoophachty]

One of the most biggest mistakes I’ve made is staying for the potential of a man. Take it or leave it, potential isn’t promise.

[2SLIZZY2SEXY @kissmeharda]

i hate that liking a man feels like you’re constantly dick riding

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

i find it extremely fcked up when you have to ask men “what if she was your sister, daughter or mother” in order to make them see women as valuable human beings

[𝗄𝖺𝗄𝗁𝗈𝗓𝖺 @simphiweyinkoc_]

Dating is optional. My bill are paid. My house is calm. My bed is big. You’re not competing with another man, you’re competing with how comfortable I am alone.

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

I love people with ADHD because they never actually forget anything. You just have to say the right words to activate them like a sleeper cell and then they awaken with all of the knowledge on a very niche subject they studied for 3 months straight 6 years ago.

[miia @miiagarro]

men are becoming too content with being useless. you can't fix shit, can't build shit, don't pay for shit, can't plan any dates. what are you really here for??

[highFashion @rahman_jago_]

Overextending yourself for people and making their emergencies your own emergency doesn't get you more loved, it's gets you more used. Trust me they'd be fine without you. being kind is powerful. Being kind without boundaries is exhausting.

[𝒵𝒾𝓀✯ @_Gottalovezik]

being sensitive is so embarrassing like how am i supposed to tell you i'm upset just because your energy felt a little off and it made me feel unwanted

[Maryam @hell_line0]

Men’s addiction to social media. Addiction to corn.
Lack of therapy.
Lack of shadow work.
Lack of inner child work.
Lack of understanding how their childhood impacts them and how they show up in relationships.
Lack of integrity.
Lies.
Sassiness.
Internalized misogyny.
Unhealed mother and father wounds. Selfishness.
Immaturity.
Obsession with control.
Obsession with humbling women.
Connection to their exes.
Not being trauma informed.
Inability to hold space for emotions.

[Sherry @SchrodingrsBrat]

Clutter causes death by a thousand cuts the way nothing major makes you panic but the slow march of time paralyzes you with a cloud of anxiety with unopened emails, unfinished and repetitive dreams, messy rooms, micro stressors that don’t immediately kill you but take up space

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

ISOLATION AND SLEEP.

[Thamani💖 @maverickthamanl]

She did all the right things
Blocked him
Avoided him
Informed her family about his threats
Lived in a supposed secure estate.
Refused to allow in strangers

He still found a way to sneak into her house and unalived her all because she said no, I cannot date you anymore.

I don’t know man but stories like this just ruin your day. Like wtf?

Why is it so hard for an adult to understand the concept of No? This is so heartbreaking fr

[💗 @ma1ybe]

I will marry a super calm gentleman who's insanely obsessed w me. Life is too short to spend it with a guy who acts nonchalant & mean.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

someone on tiktok said walking away from people who can’t show up for you may feel lonely but you’re already lonely with them and it altered my brain chemistry lol

[Hayat 🇳🇬⭐️ @snoophachty]

⭐️

[Renike @iamrenike]

Are there grants I can apply for to fund one’s lifestyle. Baby Girl Lifestyle Grant for African Women? Or something like that?

[highFashion @rahman_jago_]

When you realize everyone is a projection of how they feel internally, you take a whole lot less to heart. It doesn't mean you need to accept disrespect, but it does mean you can go about your life, paying less attention to unnecessary behavior, and focus on better things instead