We are in a karmic season. What’s been hidden is being revealed, what’s been tolerated is being tested, and what no longer serves its purpose is being removed. 💯
I’m building a circle where healed people recognize healed people, accountable people respect accountable people, and nobody has to bleed just to prove they belong.
I’m at a place in my life where I only want people around me who have already done the work. People who have sat with themselves. Confronted their wounds. Taken accountability without needing a courtroom of excuses. Broken generational patterns instead of handing them down.
At this stage of my life, peace is ancestral wealth. Accountability is emotional maturity. Healing is a responsibility. If you haven’t done the work, I can love you from a distance.
I’ve learned to stay away from people who bring out the mean, reactive or chaotic side of me. Not because I’m incapable of handling them, but because I know that version of me isn’t who I want to be. If a connection constantly pulls me away from my peace and brings out a side of myself I don’t recognise, I’d rather walk away. Protecting your peace means protecting the person you’re becoming.
Respect, loyalty, trust has to be EARNED now. I’m no longer giving that shit out for free. People put themselves on a pedestal like it has to be accessed. They see it as an obligation with no reciprocation. NO, it’s needs to be EARNED from me. If not, get TF from around me.
I’ll be nice to you until I’m not. I’ll be respectful to you until I’m not. I’ll empathize & go easy on you until I don’t. I’ll care until I don’t. I will be willing until I no longer want to extend myself. Don’t push me cause there is a side of me you’ll never get back from me.
People want to keep taking advantage of your kindness and once you peep and do a FULL STOP now you’re mean, now they’re disappointed now they’re sad because the shit you used to go for you’re not going for anymore. Welp 🤷🏽♀️ should’ve been grateful, respectful and humbled.
Everyone think they know it all and when it’s time to face the reality of things all of a sudden they don’t want to face reality of it anymore because they know it’s hard not easy out there. Shiitttt go do you lmaoooo it’s not my business.
Everyone does what’s best for them but once they see you doing what’s best for you or moving different to do what’s best for you.. now it’s a problem lmfaooooo 🫣🫠😂😂
Everyone wants you to mind their business when it comes to their personal lives until you do mind your own business and now they’re mad at you and made you the villain. Lmfaoo what happened I thought your personal life was ya business..soo go live it shit you don’t need me..🫢😂
So if I’m not asked for help, assistance, or support, it won’t be offered. Everyone is free to speak up if they need me, but I’m no longer volunteering myself, my time, or my resources. If you need my help, ask. If I’m not being asked, I won’t offer it.
I’m not offering help or assistance in other people’s situations ever again. When I offer help, people become entitled to expect it from me every time, without having to ask, & then become upset when it doesn’t happen the way they expect it to.
One thing I need to work on and stop doing is being too considerate. I’m too considerate when it comes to people. Even when it’s not reciprocated. I’m an over giver and I’m not interested in always going above & beyond for ANYONE going forward.
I was venting the other day as always lmaoo and my tweets were being watched. I had no idea certain things were being said lmfaoo wow see how much I mind my business. That’s crazy though 😂 I’m not even minding anyone just minding me Whewww chile