@dolawanle I don't think we should end it, instead encourage it.
When you give a gift you're showing appreciation, as long as money is considered a way of giving out gifts it is not bad to give money.
What I don't like is the entitlement mentality mostly from the receiver.
@NigeriaStories Haaaaa, what is this please?.
Well, good gesture, wrong intentions. Instead of this it should be installation of traffic light and employment of youths to apprehend traffic offenders😔
@dolawanle@ManUtd You're right sir, this is the premier League. Even the legendary pack the Bus Coach plays an attacking style sometimes.
Understanding someone environment is key to success in life.
Residents of Ibadan have expressed concern after a truckload of men, motorcycles, and cows arriving from the north was spotted in Dugbe this afternoon.
In 2015 they boasted with certainty how President Goodluck was ready to adopt same sex marriage but were summarily disappointed when the reputable leader took them to the cleaners while reinforcing the fact that we are a people rooted in culture. Only those void of national identity seek validation externally. Know thyself. 🇳🇬
@waa_sere Eledumare will continue to broaden your knowledge. This is how a pastor told me usage of herb is unGodly, I ended our conversation quickly. Ko lo far
WHY SOME MEN LOSE OUT IN MARITAL BATTLES.
I have been involved in many messy divorce cases as a family lawyer. At one point, I had to slow down in taking on divorce cases, as it was affecting my mental health. I could not believe what people did to each other to gain the upper hand.
In some instances, men lost out when it comes to getting the support of their children and having access to them.
Reading some Social Workers’ reports, the Cafcass reports, the police reports, and listening to some of the children involved in some divorce cases was not pretty.
Some men hung themselves out to dry by turning the children against themselves unknowingly:
They shouted at their mother (even though the children know she is sometimes horrible)
They beat their mother
They abuse their mother verbally
They speak ill of their mother when she is not around.
They are hardly at home
They don’t take or collect the children from the school
They don’t take the children shopping
They don’t follow the children to games
They don’t even have the time to follow them on holidays.
They transfer money to their wife without letting the children know they support them financially. They are spending e-money.
Unknowingly, many men are outsiders in their families, and if they have any issues with their wives, the children will back their mother.
It is even worse when the man is the family enforcer. The wives report the children to the man, and he punishes the children. They see him as the bad man. Men should therefore apply wisdom and stop working against themselves.
I have seen a lot. If I write about what happened to some men, you will cry. Men, it is not too late to change. Apply more wisdom. I am coming…
Share/repost to help some men.
My name is Dele Olawanle. I am a coach and lawyer. I think, write, and speak to improve lives. Follow me for more insights and inspiration.
The disaster called Alejandro Garnacho is looming.
As a supporter of @ManUtd, one of the greatest football clubs in the world, I have seen some brilliant footballers. I have seen some who grew too big for their shoes. Some lost their way through indiscipline. I remember Lee Sharpe and Ben Thornley, Federico Macheda, Darron Gibson, Januzaj, Jessie Lingard, and James Wilson, amongst others. The young man here is going in that direction. If @Cristiano is his hero, he is not following his life patterns.
Taunting an institution like Manchester United is childish, and the guy needs good advisers. If he does not become a disciplined and humble person, he will waste his immense talent because talent is not enough to succeed as a footballer. He needs discipline and a good adviser.
If you want to leave a football club, leave quietly. Do not alienate yourself from the fans and the club. You are too small to do that. Not many footballers leave Manchester United and set the world alight. They fade into oblivion. He is going in that direction.
My name is Dele Olawanle. I am a coach. I think, write, and speak to improve lives. Follow me for more insights and inspiration.
Ọjọ́ Àìkú.
The day of longevity
I embrace the concept of
The blessings of Ìbejì
Double goodness
Double joy…
One thing have we asked for
Two things have we received
Mo wa ìbejì máyà l’ọ́jọ́ àìkú
Double blessings and longevity
Àṣẹ!
#waasere