The Soft Never

Shifting the lens and limits we put on life. We celebrate the power of #SidewaysThinking and a #GrowthMindset to break toxic cycles. 💫🙌
#NeverSayNever

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@LFrostWrites I see a giant puppy?

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@instagram my Instagram account is suspended and deactivated. HELP!

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The very best friends are the friends who show up for us when we show up as ourselves.

#BeYourself #BestFriends

[The Soft Never @SoftNever]

You can understand that someone has done their very best, dug their very deepest, tried their very hardest with the tools they had AND — still know that it is not a good fit for the current version of you.

[The Soft Never @SoftNever]

Shout out to anyone else learning the hard way that self-care is NOT the same as self-compassion. 🙋🏻‍♀️

#selfcare #selfcompassion

[The Soft Never @SoftNever]

Freedom is the moment you finally understand that you were never designed to be everyone else's comfort animal.

#notyourjob #gobeyou #codependency #codependentnomore #codependentrecovery

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Does anyone else have songs that will always remind them of quarantine? Only the Wild Ones by @dispatchmusic will forever bring me back to Google classrooms, soft pants, and hiding the good toilet paper from my children.

#quarantinelife #playlist

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Life has taught me, again and again, to loosely carry my Places and Things — but always hold on tight to my People. ♥️

#LifeLessons #WritersOfTwitter #WritingCommunity

[The Soft Never @SoftNever]

Phrases we use to gaslight ourselves in our own relationships:

They mean well.
It's all they know.
That's just their way.
I know that they love me.

#thisisnotlovelanguage #toxicrelationships

[The Soft Never @SoftNever]

Just got schooled by my teenager that E.T. originally says "E.T. HOME phone" NOT "E.T. PHONE home" and now I feel like my entire life has been a lie...

#80skid #mindblown

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There’s no such thing as “one-size-fits-all” forgiveness — it comes in a million different shapes, forms, sizes, and distances.

#ProtectYourpeace #WritingCommunity #WritersofTwitter

[Becky Gonzalez @_beckygonzalez]

surprise the darkness
and shine.

[The Soft Never @SoftNever]

Here’s to giving ourselves permission to adjust what we consume AND the people who have access to us online, no matter when — and no matter who. 💫🙌

#healingjourney #selfcare #selflove #journeytowellness

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Here's to releasing the things we no longer want to carry — or hand down to the next generation.

#healingjourney #toxicrelationships #selfcare #selflove #traumarecovery #journeytowellness #copingskills

[Glennon Doyle @GlennonDoyle]

i must gently insist that saying long story short does not magically trick us into believing that the long story you just told is somehow gonna get shorter. that is not how time works you already spent our life

[The Soft Never @SoftNever]

A loving, gentle reminder that it’s okay to mind our Ps — to stop focusing on performing, pretending, people-pleasing, and pushing through to focus on and prioritize our:

Peace
Pursuit
Progress
And most importantly, Purpose.

#writingcommunity #findyourpurpose #livewithpurpose

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It's always okay to step away from the things that no longer serve us well...

#setboundaries #letitgo #writingcommunity #findyourpurpose #livewithpurpose

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We don't have to keep white-knuckling the wrong things in our life, based on fear, based on someone else’s expectations, based on sheer force of habit. 💫👐

#setboundaries #letitgo ##writingcommunity #findyourpurpose #livewithpurpose

[The Soft Never @SoftNever]

A loving, gentle reminder that it’s okay to follow our hearts into newer, deeper waters — even if it means we have to swim alone. The right people, our people, will always be there, cheering us on from the shoreline. 💫🙌

#writingcommunity #findyourpurpose #livewithpurpose