in defense of spending money i don’t have… i live in new england and it’s been so cold and rainy here my bones huuuuuurt because im a baby (aka have reynauds and joint issues)
my chronic illnesses haven’t killed me yet but they’ve killed a thousand versions of myself that i could’ve been and nearly every dream i’ve ever had and i think that’s worse sometimes
Please have hobbies in your 30s, so you don’t become overly focused on relationships, other people’s availability, or what’s missing in your life.
Run, dance, read, travel, try new things, make friends, and fall in love with your own life. There’s so much more to experience.