Bims

putting my thoughts into words

[Bims @soibim]

Happy Sunday, why haven’t you referred my business or followed my business page on IG.

[Bims @soibim]

@OyinComms And she’s your namesake

[the pressure @larabillionaire]

I can hear my child crying, her grandma will soon bring her to me. Let me pretend to be asleep

[Neicy❤️‍🔥 @neicycollins]

The way yall just meet someone and immediately wanna fuck without knowing their health status is very concerning

[Rukhani @fabsFWD_]

Accountability is a must.

[Bims @soibim]

@Wozeechee You mean Nigeria?

[Bims @soibim]

Karma doesn’t arrive with noise or announcements, it arrives wearing the face of your own actions. And it makes you sit with them until you truly understand.

[Alice M. Simushi @applechews_]

Years ago, I lost a family member to commercial sex work. She contracted HIV and couldn’t accept it. Within two years, it progressed to AIDS. I nursed her for three weeks before she died. I had her phone throughout and it kept buzzing 🧵

[Bims @soibim]

@shady_gift55 Come let’s go for pizza date

[Infinity vision @heal_soul49465]

You feel tense around them instead of relaxed.
Your energy drops after spending time with them.
Your stomach feels uneasy or anxious before seeing them.
You avoid physical closeness without knowing why.
You feel relief when they leave.
You overthink everything they say or do.
Your mood worsens when they’re around.

[Dating Dynamics @Dating_Dynamics]

Marriage has six stages,

But most couples give up at stage three.

Stage 1: The Honeymoon Stage....

[Bims @soibim]

The value of your life doesn’t come from the abundance of things you possess

[Precious Bernard(Benin Chef👩🏽‍🍳) @ptreatshaven]

I just pray that I don’t have friends who will see me doing the wrong thing but still cheer me on.
Some of you need to learn how to tell the truth to people in your corner regardless of how they may take it. 🌚

[Bims @soibim]

Tonto Dikeh please na!!!!

[Bims @soibim]

Saw a video of a genZ crying because a gen alpha called her ugly.
Awwwn, I see why I refused to teach during nysc.

[Rhonda ❤️ @Babynma23]

Period cramps is the real “yakubu manage” cause you’d actually feel like you want to die but you will not die.😭

[Bims @soibim]

I like how woke we’ve all become
Till it has to do with us, we will bend, fold and squeeze like mad

[𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐞 @Mzdelah]

I believe that people's actions can make it clear that they have no respect or regard for you, regardless of what they say. Their actions clearly indicate that they don't value you. When you notice this, take it for what is!

[Solace @lifeinsolace]

Was I wrong?

One of my friends was getting married, and she asked me to join in her asoebi. The cost of the asoebi was ₦100k. I declined, explaining that I don't do bridal asoebi that I have to pay.

On her wedding day, I put far more than ₦100k in an envelope and gave her. She gladly accepted it. A few days after the wedding, I started hearing some things she had said about me. I called her to verify, and she was honest enough to admit that she wasn't happy I hadn't joined in the asoebi. The friendship is now shaky😑

For more context, I've only done asoebi twice in my life, and I didn't pay for either one. Call me old-school, but I believe bridal asoebi should be free. I don't know how it became the norm that we have to pay for it.

[CBFW ᥫ᭡ @Stunnianna]

I love my son so much 💙God bless my baby

[Roshay C. @roshaycherice]

Me being a parent is actually funny as fuck cause I’m still childish 😂😂😂