i remember as a kid being like “Wow as an adult i’ll be able to buy as much candy as i want whenever i want” which turned out to be completely true and as amazing as i imagined
This is what you get when you work at a patriarchal workplace. You don't get to say about anything, you don't have a voice. Yes, they would listen to you but at the end of the day, all those words will be invalidated because you're just a woman.