if you're a beginner, remind yourself to be ready with the different circumstances that you will encounter in writing community. let those advice, constructive criticisms, opinions be a guide and a lesson for you to learn and to grow as a writer.
if you're a writer, it was not a requirement for you to finish your story in a fast pace. let the scenarios, ideas and the plot itself sinks in you, take your time in writing it and finish it with confidence.
There are about hundred stories and thousand words coming inside a writer's head every day yet completing a single novel would take a lot of time and self-doubt. That's how complicated writing is.
writers will have the same plot but written differently. so stop doing the comparison and just read, if you don't like the way the story was written, then leave the writer alone.
my stories are my works. don't just connect it to me personally. it has reasons you don't know. stop intruding and focus on yourself. thanks for understanding 🤝