date sweet men. men who communicate instead of shutting down. men who can articulate their feelings. men who are soft spoken, calm, patient, kind, and gentle with you. men who respect you, themselves & know how to control themselves. men who make you feel safe, not anxious
I’m SUCH a sucker for praising a sub who’s genuinely trying. Tell him he’s done well, call him a good boy, give him a little affection & suddenly he wants to move mountains for you.
Men are so cute when they feel appreciated 😭🥹