-If a woman calls you baby, darling, babu, love, it means nothing.
-If a woman gets intimate with you, it means nothing.
-If a woman marries you, it means nothing.
-If a woman becomes the mother of your child, it means nothing.
-If she is doing things for you, it means nothing.
-If she disconnects from all the social media platforms for you, it means nothing.
If she respects you when life gets hard, if she stands beside you when things are heavy and ready to build a world with you, then she means everything.
MIND GAMES TO WIN ANY INTERACTION
• To confuse:
Smile when they insult you.
• To dominate:
Stare at their forehead while they speak.
• To dismiss:
Check your watch while they are arguing.
• To control:
Lower your voice; force them to listen.
• To expose:
Stay silent. They will blabber the truth.
• To disarm:
Agree with their insult. It ruins their fun.
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BRUTAL TRUTHS ABOUT PEOPLE:
1. The weakest are often most cruel.
2. The dumbest talk the most.
3. The most miserable are the most jealous.
4. The most insignificant are the most arrogant.
5. The wisest remain calm.
6. The strongest are always kind.
7. The smartest often stay silent.
8. The happiest live quietly.
Quick reminder.
1.Look into people's eyes no matter who they re.
2. Speak slowly and calmly.
3. Never appear stressed, always act calm.
4. Never respond immediately, wait a few seconds, then respond coldly and briefly.
5. Don't show ur weakness, don't let people use it against yo
Quick reminder.
1.Look into people's eyes no matter who they re.
2. Speak slowly and calmly.
3. Never appear stressed, always act calm.
4. Never respond immediately, wait a few seconds, then respond coldly and briefly.
5. Don't show ur weakness, don't let people use it against yo
If your parents isn’t rich, if your parents didn’t give you a headstart or inheritance
If your parents gave you nothing than education, then by all means, be very intentional who you marry
Because if you want to change your life, if you want to give your children what your parents didn’t give you, you need to marry the best of women
You need to marry a fully feminine and committed woman
A woman committed to your vision and goals
A woman who would watch over your children while you work your life off
A woman who wouldn’t turn your children against you
A woman who wouldn’t destr0y what you are building
A woman who would be your friend, comforter and adviser
A woman who wants to be a mother as much as she wants to be your wife
Because in the end, when you achieve your goals and vision, you want to come back to a home that is intact, that your children are still your children not your wife’s children
The struggle to succeed in this life cannot be done alone and a terrible woman will destr0y you faster than any bankruptcy
6 Rules I wish I learned before 30;
RULE NUMBER 1:
When a woman truly loves you, She'll fix her attitude, her tone, her habits, anything that risks losing you.
RULE NUMBER 2:
As a man, avoid showing off. always pretend you don't have money, even when your pockets are overflowing. You'll thank me later.
RULE NUMBER 3:
Men with pure intentions can not win in this generation.
RULE NUMBER 4:
You're a fucking man.
97% of your stress should be about making money, elevating in life & building your future. Not about who is not talking to you..
RULE NUMBER 5:
Don't be cheap when investing in yourself.
-Quality clothes
-Quality gym
-Quality books
-Quality coaches
-Quality food
Cheap investments mean cheap results.
RULE NUMBER 6:
Cut off anyone who lies, make jokes, uses, and disrespect you. Even close friends and family.
15 DECISIONS THAT SEPARATE HIGH VALUE MEN FROM THE REST:
1. Wake up early.
2. Train even when unmotivated.
3. Read 10 pages daily.
4. Say no to distractions.
5. Fix posture instantly.
6. Speak slower & deeper.
7. Hold eye contact.
8. Pay attention to details.
9. Keep promises to yourself.
10. Walk with purpose.
11. Dress sharper than needed.
12. Listen more than talk.
13. Cut energy vampires.
14. Invest before spending.
15. Reflect nightly.
PSYCHOLOGY SECRETS
1. Someone who constantly checks their phone is avoiding their own thoughts
2. If someone remembers small details about you, they genuinely care.
3. People who give advice but can't follow it themselves are fighting their own battles
4. Someone who overthinks at night is carrying pain they don't talk about.
5. If someone apologizes too much, they've been blamed for things that weren't their tault.
6. People who seem the happiest often hide the deepest sadness.
The most expensive thing in Nigeria is being poor.
People think poverty is just not having money.
But the real problem is what it forces you to do. Don't be confused. I'll explain.
When you don’t have money, you can’t plan ahead.
You buy things in bits.
Half a bag of sachet water, half a paint rubber of beans, small gas, a few cubes of maggi, etc.
Somehow, you end up spending more than the person who bought in bulk, paid once, and moved on.
If you have money, you buy something of high quality, and you’re done. If you don’t, you keep managing the same bad one, or you replace it with another low-quality one. Car owners can relate to this very well.
Fix today, fix next month, and the fixing continues.
The repairer knows you too well. Lol.
Tell me why a person should buy used tyres. After a few months, they go bad, and you're already trying to replace them. Whereas the person who bought a brand new tyre isn't thinking of replacing it. You end up spending more than he spent.
Health is worse.
When you’re broke and you feel sick, you don’t rush to the hospital. You wait. You try to manage it at home. Not because you want to, but because you’re hoping it will pass.
Sometimes it does.
Sometimes it doesn’t.
And when it doesn’t, the bill is bigger than it would have been at the start.
Where you live matters too.
You stay far because the rent is cheaper. Then transport eats you every day. By the time you get to work, you’re already exhausted. Na vex you go use dey enter office.
Money would have saved you time.
But you didn’t have it.
If you don't have savings, you are limited to choices. And when you don’t have choices, people decide things for you. Your landlord, your boss, even the system.
That’s why poverty is not just a lack of money.
It’s pressure from all sides, every passing day.
In Nigeria, money saves you money.
Poverty does the opposite.
INALEGWU.