we romanticized being detached because admitting "l really fucking love you and losing you would hurt me" requires a type of gangster this generation doesn't respect enough
maybe your relationship will do better when you realize that sometimes your partner isn’t trying to hurt you, they just genuinely don’t see things the way you do. that's why communication matters so much.
Being suicidal due to depression isn’t about wanting to die. It’s about believing that you need to die to rid yourself of the pain you’re experiencing.