This was the man who murdered my dad’s friend daughter in 2011 by stabbing her over 77 times in various parts of her body, his Name is AKOLADE AROWOLO
He was a RCCG youth pastor and the church tried to subvert justice back then
She was the breadwinner of the house while him a struggling youth pastor with no job or funds and heavily rely on her salary s a banker
Their daughter was just 3yrs old when this useless man took my friend’s life
It started from small beating and shouting then it became a regular thing
We fought hard for her to leave this useless man alone but she always find an excuse for him
Every week is a different mark on her face filled with heavy makeup and shades to hide her scars
She didn’t come to work on that said day and her colleagues got worried and had to call me cos we work in close proximity to each other, I was clueless to on why she didn’t show to work and put a call across her phone and BBM but none went through
Her colleague persuaded me we should both go to her house during our lunch break and we went, on getting to her house her flat doors were locked, it was when I peeped through the kitchen window I saw blood and screamed for help, the kitchen door at the back of the flat got broken and what I saw was her lifeless body in the pool of her own blood
I almost screamed the whole building down with the whole neighborhood rushing down towards the kitchen,it was the most awful crime scenes I’ve ever seen
This horrible man lied she stabbed herself to death and his church supported him until a great pathologists proved them wrong and he was finally sentenced to death by hanging in 2019 and still waiting to be hanged
If you want people to talk about men to stop beating their wives then I’m not the kind of person, if you don’t leave when I advice you to leave then be prepared for whatever outcome you get cos you can see the rates of FEMICIDE in recent years
I’ve written this story over and over again on this platform to encourage women to leave at the first sign of violence
Leave to LIVE
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3) Igbo Language, Obuofia Dialect
4) Igbo language, Ezza Dialect.
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Your dialect and your Language can save you in a dangerous situations.