lesbians wearing suits to their weddings? completely fine. gay men wearing gowns? considered extremely controversial.
the reason? femininity is portrayed as humiliation and weakness. at the end of the day, misogyny is everywhere for those with eyes to see it.
i think its genuinely so cool that seungmin has both normalized and made visible the use of mobility aids in concerts - without it, for even once, seeming like its taking anything away from his performance. what a great thing for representation of disability/accessibility