himeros

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-@ZenithBank 3300 for SMS charges?

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

Dating 101!!!

Sit back, read, think and adapt!!!

Before You Commit, Take Time to Know the Person!!!

Again, if you are a perceptive person, you will realize that no human being can pretend forever.

People can pretend for a while, they can hide their weaknesses, control their reactions, say the right things and show you only the parts of themselves they want you to see. But with enough time, life will eventually reveal them, pressure will reveal them, your disappointing them will reveal them, money will reveal them, success will reveal them, failing will reveal them. And sometimes, simply being around them for long enough will reveal who they truly are.

This is why you should never be in a hurry to commit your heart, your future or your life to someone you barely know.

Think about anything you truly understand. Whether it is a profession, skill, subject or even a hobby, deep knowledge usually comes from spending a great deal of time with it. You observe it, study it, ask questions, make mistakes, look deeper….

People are not different…

You cannot truly know a person simply because you have been talking to them for six months or because you are deeply attracted to them. You know someone by paying attention to them over time, you listen to what they say, but you also watch what they do. You observe how they treat people (immediately family members) who cannot benefit them, you watch how they behave when they are angry, disappointed, broke, successful, sick, stressed or ignored.

In love, you must do more than admire someone. You must study a person’s character and who they truly want to be.

Ask questions & difficult conversations about money, family, children, faith, responsibilities, friendships, boundaries, sex, ambition, failure, and expectations. Do not be afraid to confront uncomfortable subjects. Someone who looks perfect when everything is going well may look very different when life becomes difficult.

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Familiarity does not only breed contempt. Many times, familiarity gives you a deeper appreciation of a good person. The more reasonable you are as a human being, the more you understand that nobody is perfect. When you spend enough time with a good person, you begin to see their weaknesses alongside their strengths and you can decide whether those weaknesses are things you can genuinely live with.

So please, take your time before you commit to someone.

See them in different seasons of life…
See them when they have nothing…
See them when they have plenty…
See how they behave when they are in control and when they are not…
See how they treat people who cannot help them...
See how they respond when they are told “no”…
See how they view money…
See how they handle disappointment…
See how they speak about their former partners…
See how they treat their parents, siblings, friends, children, workers and strangers…

And just as importantly, allow them to see you finish too.

Do not pretend to be someone you are not just because you want someone to love you. Let them see you when you are struggling, when you are uncertain, when you are successful, when you are tired and when you are not at your best.

Some people are obsessed with control, some are selfish, some are driven more by money than love, some settle for you because of age, pressure, comfort, or financial security, some have mot healed from previous relationships, some carry trauma you can not deal with, some lack common.

That is why time, observation, honest conversations and self-awareness matter so much in love.

Take your time to know people!!!!

[Somtochukwu Evans 🇳🇬 @_Somtochi]

Cold what? 😭

[🧸 @_y3maya]

but guess who is broker?

[Oku @oku_yungx]

“As long as they can do what big boys do”.

Billing machine don talk.

[Mobolaji @mo_bolaji_]

Help me understand how he ended up in your bed

[PABLO OF UNN🦁 @chudy_jnr]

How is this fair in football?
How can you intentionally do this to someone who came to enjoy the game just like you?
How can you straight-up murder someone's son without remorse?
Now he is dead and you are claiming it was a collision💔

[Abiola @Biyo_lar]

This guy won 5 UCLs. And loves United this much.

Legends come here and love our institution, even in trying times. Schweinsteiger, Ibra, Case, Odion...etc

I'd never be gaslighted into believing not giving your ALL for Manchester United should be supported.

I'm proud of my club.

#GGMU

[Ossy Vincent @ossynoya]

Time this man will want to contest for presidency, they will tell you he doesn’t have experience and should learn how to play politics instead.

[Naomi @naomi_akerele]

Yes, with man utd

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

His body his choice.

[Premier League @premierleague]

🏄

@ManUtd

[Rio Ferdinand @rioferdy5]

Explain @FA_PGMOL

[Adam @AdamJoseph]

Michael Carrick goes in on the first goal & the red card decisions: “Leny Yoro gets a forearm smashed in the back of his head. It's worth looking at again if you haven't seen that.

Which I don't know if you're getting a sending off for what we are getting a sending off for, I don't know how that doesn't get overturned as a goal it's a clear forearm smashed to the side of his head, that first goal shouldn't stand.

.. If he sees [the Martinez incident], we've seen it before he goes to the screen & says 'well actually it's not [a red card], the arm in the face of Lisandro to start with is an arm in the face so he's kind of off balance & off grappling.

He almost goes to touch him to grab the back of his shirt & grabs the back of his hair.. you get a red card? It's not aggressive, there's no tug, there's no sudden movement, he kind of touches it & glances through it.

We've got to be careful with where the game is going if we're giving red cards for that, but you can do two arms to the face for the red card & the first goal & that's deemed alright. That's a shocking decision, an absolutely shocking decision.”

[@BeanymanSports]

[Great Perry @vet_perry]

A disturbing case from 2019 involving this man named Asiwaju has resurfaced online, drawing public attention again.

Asiwaju, who was considered one of the notable faces on Twitter at the time, said he met a girl at the club and spent over 500k on drinks. They both got high and later had sex in his car.
A lady identified as Blessing Osom, whom he had an encounter with, came out with rape allegations and it escalated fast. She didn’t stop there, she brought in another girl to back the story and make it more believable, heating up the case even more. The girl allegedly started blackmailing and extorting Asiwaju, severely affecting his reputation and mental well being. Amid the growing controversy, his mother suffered a heart attack after learning about the allegations, an event he believed contributed to her death.

Overwhelmed by the combination of public backlash, personal loss and emotional distress, Asiwaju tragically took his own life later that same year.

[cici💛 @shezzzz_weird]

His last tweet was 2019

Any news about him?

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

“If I leave her I will feel like a loser.”

This is the nature of 9ja relationship. The man spends so much money impressing her and getting her to date him. Then he sponsors the entire relationship and use money to keep her. He then lives the rest of his life fearing an end to the relationship because of his investment.

He doesn't want the relationship to end because of his investment. Where your money is, your heart will be there.

That babe's heart is not in the relationship because she has never invested anything into the relationship. She just wants to use him to japa, and she will deal with him. This is what we have tried to teach men everyday. Women should invest equally into the relationship as much as you're investing. Everyone fights for their investment. If her money is not in the relationship, her heart can never be there.

[👳🏾‍♂️Mufti Of Ilorin Online 👳🏾‍♂️ @Adamthallith]

She’s crying, she said it’s cruise.

[himeros @son_of_himeros]

@Wizarab10 If you ignore the signs, you'd see wonders. How did you end up wifeing a woman who doesn't contribute anything except it solely benefits her???

[MOROUNTODUN. (AJOKEADE) @Ajokeaadee]

💔💔💔💔How a Granite Pot Almost Cost Me My Life

For the past five months, I have been in and out of the hospital. Every visit came with different test results, different explanations, and no clear answers. It was exhausting and terrifying.

I became a shadow of myself.

I would wake up in the middle of the night crying and praying, begging God to spare my life. I fasted constantly. I cried almost every day. I felt like I was slowly dying inside, even though I couldn’t explain exactly what was wrong.

My body began to change. I noticed excess fat all over, and I assumed I was simply gaining weight. But deep down, I knew something wasn’t right. I was weak. I collapsed several times. I kept taking different treatments, hoping something would work but nothing truly changed.

Then last week, my aunt came to visit. She noticed the pot I was using and asked, “I hope you’re not using that pot for your customers?”
I told her no because the pots were small, so I only used them for personal cooking at home.

She immediately told me to stop using them and to observe my body for a month.

I wasn’t fully convinced, but I listened.

Since the day I stopped using that pot, I have felt a difference. The weakness reduced. I stopped collapsing. I began to regain my strength. I started feeling like myself again.

It was that serious.

Now, I’m committed to taking my medications consistently and giving my body the care it deserves so I can fully recover.

This experience humbled me. It reminded me how fragile life is, and how sometimes, the smallest things can silently affect us in the biggest ways.

God truly saved me.